LAWS OF LOVE

The Most Basic Law of Respect in Romance

Whoever is going the fastest must slow down and go as slow as the slowest one, or there can be no healthy progress. Breaking that law is called romantic-rape. The person doing it often calls the victim commitmentphobic. The consequences of breaking the law range from alienation to restraining orders.

The Most Basic Law of Respect in Sex

Whoever is going the fastest must slow down and go as slow as the slowest one, or there can be no healthy progress. Breaking that law is called date-rape. The person doing it often calls the victim frigid. The consequences of breaking the law range from alienation to a prison sentence.

There are exceptions to every law...but very few.

Some other assorted laws....

• The more friendship you give - the more romance you'll get.
• The more romance you give - the more friendship you'll get.
• The more certain you are - the less certain they become.
• The less certain you are - the more certain they become.
• The slower you go - the better it takes.

If romance is giving you more pain than pleasure for longer than a month, either you're doing something wrong or you're doing it with the wrong one. Change something now.

“What To Do? Try To Get Him Back or Forget Him?”

You’ve had your heart broken in the past and promised yourself you would never, ever be in that position again. And since then, you have been very careful not to feel too much or give too much of yourself to any man. For you know, all too well, how much it hurts when the love is not returned.

But somehow this one slipped into your heart when your guard was down. And, once again, you find yourself madly in love.

But how could you have known it would happen again? He was so attentive, showered you with gifts and took you to all the best restaurants. You seemed perfect for one another. You liked the same movies, laughed at the same jokes and even shared similar hobbies. Perhaps that was when you should have listened to the warning sirens going off in your head that said, “if he seems too good to be true…..”

But you hoped and prayed this time things would be different and that he would be the one. Your “knight in shining armor,” the person you could spend the rest of your life with.

Looking back now, you wonder if there were any signs that you missed. A sign that he was unhappy or perhaps that he had met someone else. You have been wracking your brain, unable to sleep or eat, wondering what you did wrong, or didn’t do right. What you could have said or should have said to make him happy. But you will never know, because he won’t talk to you and he won’t return your e-mails.

So, what do you do? You do what you always do. You gather up your girlfriends and go over and over everything you can think of in order to get this man back. You devise all sorts of plans such as showing up at his work, at lunch time, in nothing but a trench coat. After all, you have lost fifteen pounds since he dumped you. Or, you still have the key to his house, so perhaps he’ll find you in his bed waiting for him when he gets home after work.

Then you ask yourself, “Do I really want him back? If he was such a great person, how could he have done what he did to me?” Perhaps even your friends are telling you that you really need to just let it go.

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When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can Too!

by Bob Grant, L.P.C. author of “The Woman Men Adore”

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this:

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me. They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around. Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying. They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love. Was it me? After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape. So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house? The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner? Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door?

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men. I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them. What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?”

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

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