Secrets of Building a Lasting Relationship

To establish a lasting, blissful relationship comes with hard work. It could be a work relationship, it could be mutual friendship, building an enduring engagement that culminates into marriage as well as maintaining a peaceful marriage relationship. It demands a lot of sacrifice, endurance, understanding and tolerance and mutual respect. You earn a friendship by establishing your trustworthiness in the heart of your mate and upholding some level of integrity.

·                     Secret Number 1:  Be genuine and truthful. No relationship stands on falsehood. Let your partner be your rock. Even when it is hardest to own up to a fault, ensure to confide in your partner the hardest truth. Keep his or her secret. Eschew flattery because it gives your friend false confidence. Compliment his or her looks and achievements by once in a while giving him or her a treat or special gifts. Also use nice words. No sarcasms. Show him/her that you appreciate your relationship and is important to you.

·                     Secret number 2:   Ensure to love your partner for who he or she is and not for what you stand to gain from the relationship. Get to the level that you love your partners so much that his mistakes do not matter to you so much again. That is what I call unconditional love. When you are there, you can hardly give a particular reason why you love him or her. But you just know that you love everything about him or her. Love covers all faults. Be ready to forgive him or her no matter how hard. Also learn to respect his or her feelings, privacy and opinions for a man's opinion is the embodiment of such a man. Believe in his or her visions. Either your dreams or his dreams can make both of you.

·                     Secret number 3:   Believe in your mate and make a conscious effort to study and know his strengths and weakness. Love him when he or she is weak as well as when he is most active. Encourage him and bring out the best in him. Respect other relationships he or she keeps.

·                     Secret Number 4:  Own up to your own faults. You must be able to admit your mistakes, apologize and ensure never to repeat such acts again. Learn not to win in every argument. Endeavour also not to dominate every discussion. Give him or her room to air their own views. Do not lord your choice or views over him or her. Respect his opinions.

·                     Secret number 5: Be there for him or her in thick and thin. Learn to listen and understand his pains. Go out of your ways to ease his or her aches. Be genuinely interested in his well -being, success and affairs. Do not take him for granted nor take his companionship for granted. Honor him/her by giving him priority above others. Try and appreciate and guard his interests as if they are yours. Defend him outside even when he is at fault after which you confront him and endeavor to show him where he went wrong and help him overcome the guilt and suggest ways to make amends

How to kiss your girlfriend in a passionate way

Everyone knows that a good kiss can lead to a great start to any relationship, and a bad kiss can be a deal breaker. If you're dating someone, and everything is great and almost perfect with this person, but then you find out he or she is a bad kisser, all bets are off. Kissing is just as intimate and sensual as the act of sex. So if your partner doesn't know how to kiss, there's already problems brewing in paradise. You can tell a lot about how a person kisses.
Ok...so since I'm supposed to be the expert at kissing, here are step by step instructions on how to properly kiss a woman. So for all you guys...you might want to read this first before you start your next kiss-swapping session...

Generally, for women, we want a kiss to start off slow and sensual, and then gradually building into a passionate kiss. A man's lips must be nice and smooth; so if you have chapped lips slap on some chap stick or rub off the excess dead skin cells to smooth them out. Also, make sure your breath doesn't reek as it is a huge turn off for men and women if their kissing partner has bad breath. Gargle with some mouth wash or have some gum or mints ready if possible. Ok...so now on to the actual act of kissing...

Ok...so here's the scenario: you and your woman are on the couch or wherever, just relaxing. You look deep into her eyes and give her that "come hither" look. You start to inch closer, your face getting closer to hers. All the while, keep your eyes focused on her and don't break the eye contact. When you are just inches away from her, close your eyes, and move your lips towards the outter corner of her mouth and kiss it gently. Kiss the other corner of her lips.

With your lips slightly parted, press your lips on to her upper lip and slowlyl move your lips to her lower lip. Make sure you keep your tongue in your mouth at this point. Kiss her gently and slowly, drawing her in. Keep in mind not to slober your saliva all over her. You don't want to give wet, slobbery kisses. This is a big turn off!

As you are kissing her gently, take your hand and place it under her chin to hold her head steady and to keep the kiss from stopping. As you are kissing her, start kissing a little more urgently, but not too much....you are building up to the passionate kiss. You might want to at his point move your hands and gently strike the side of her face and along her jawline. Then take your lips and move it down to her jaw and trail your lips along her jawline, every so gently. Move your lips slowly down her neck, along the neck line. You will surely give her goose bumps. At the base of her neck, plant soft, gentle kisses and then start moving your lips up her neck. Then move your lips back to hers and kiss her a little more harder.

Draw her even closer to you and press your lips a little more firmer on her lips. If you're going to use tongue, ease into the act gently. You can allow your tongue to explore hers, gently probing her, but again, limit the amount of saliva you are transferring.

At this point, make your kisses more firm and less gentle. You are kissing her a little more passionately now. You can move your hands to her waist or her hips and pull her even closer to you. Intensify your kisses at this point, and now you are at a full make-out session.

Rules of Kissing:

1) Start off with slow, gentle kisses, and then gradually turn the kisses into more passionate ones. Don't go right into the hard, passionate kissing.

2) NEVER lick her on the face...this is a big NO NO! (you would be surprised by how many guys have done this)

3) Tiny, wet kisses are ok...slobbery, wet kisses are NOT OK!

4) A rule of thumb is good hygiene: have good breath, keep your lips nice and smooth, and always carry mints or gum in your pocket.

5) Use your hands correctly, either to pull her face closer to yours, stroking the side of her face or jawline, or keeping them around her waist or hips. Don't have them out there in limbo.

6) BE RESPECTFUL! Just because a girl wants to be kissed doesn't mean she wants it to lead to anything more. Learn how to get her interest.

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How do I find my true love in the world of chatting

Internet chatting is so popular this days.And because of this new technology, I have found the man of my dream.I used to be a,lets just say not so lucky in love with filipino man.We broke up and I'm in the worst stage in love relationship.Then one day my cousin go to my house and ask me to go to my aunty's house.I stay there,and they have internet at home ,they teach me how to used it and how to chat particularly.I chat every afternoon and before bedtime too.In internet chatting you will find different people with different personality.Some are nice,easy to talk with,friendly, but there are people who are naughty too.Sometimes I would think,is it really possible to find someone you can trust?someone honest and someone who would love me truly over the net?I feel frustrated sometimes specially at the end of the day all your chatmate seems to be just lying.You can find many offers,saying they wil come,they will help you,they love you and so on.

One day,I register in Friendfinder Site as a free member I broadcast myself,many people messaged me because this is a huge site with over millions of members,and some pay to there site just to reach the girl they wish to be with.So there I found him.I feel he is one of a kind,his the only one who never say ,hey i love you,i promised you something.His very true and certain to what he said.His coming to philippines that time because he's a businessman.I promised to met him and to know each other better in real.After his coming when he come back to Italy thats the time he realized he like me and he fall in love with me.He come again and ask my hand.I feel to be the happiest and the luckiest girl,I truly says online chatting is possible in the right time and in the right person.

Tips before Finding Love on the Internet

I think I can shared something about this post because I used to find my partner and true love on online dating site.So I must say that finding love in the internet world is really possible,but before there are things we need to consider.

Internet dating is so popular that a single friend once asked me, "Well, how else am I going to meet someone?" Indeed, finding love on the internet often seems to be the only option for singles dating.

Internet dating sites are becoming the rule, not the exception. More and more people are building successful relationships after finding love on the internet - and they aren't afraid to share their experiences with internet dating.

What you should know before finding love on the internet:

Researchers at the University of Bath discovered some internet dating facts:

• 94% of couples who met online keep seeing each another, but only if they spent a significant amount of time getting to know one another online before meeting the first time. Before you find love online, you should spend time really getting to know someone. Internet dating takes time.
• Internet dating relationships lasted an average of seven months.
• Men are more committed to online relationships and more dependent on their "e-partner" than women, possibly because it's easier for them to honestly share opinions and emotions in writing (women, more relational than men, may bond better in person). I Finding love on the internet dating is different for men and women.
• Couples rarely use web cams because they prefer the anonymity of writing and e-mailing when internet dating. Not all online dating services encourage web cams.

These researchers found that online relationships last as long as traditional relationships, which means you have a good chance of finding love on the internet.

If you're interested in finding love online or trying an online dating service, remember to:

• Trust your gut. If something doesn't sit right, then something's wrong - whether you're internet dating or not. Finding love on the internet isn't about ignoring your feelings.
• Be honest about who you are. Share your authentic self: dreams, goals, successes, failures. Finding love on the internet is about being real.
• Believe what they tell you. If they say they aren't ready for a relationship or are on probation for assault, then they aren't ready for a relationship and they've assaulted someone. Be careful! Internet dating sites may not screen as carefully as you'd like.
• Proceed with caution when you're finding love on the internet. A potential partner may or may not be the "one" – wait until you meet in person before you declare your undying love (even if it's just to yourself).
• Know yourself. Figure out who you are and what you want out of life, and find someone with the same goals. Finding love on the internet is easier when you're honest.

Factors to consider when you're trying an internet dating site:

• Your age and maturity level (usually, the higher the better in both cases). Are you really ready for a new relationship?
• Their age and maturity level. Are you well-matched this way? Finding love on the internet should lead you to a compatible person.
• Motivation for pursuing online dating - yours and theirs. Are you running from your past or do you have a fear of intimacy? Finding love online involves facing uncomfortable truths.
• Past history - yours and theirs. Internet dating relationships do allow for more secrets.
• Current goals - yours and theirs. Dating online should reveal what you really want out of life.

So if your ready about finding love online here's the most popular dating site wherein I found my true love just click here.Or you can choose any of those on the left side of this page.

LAWS OF LOVE

The Most Basic Law of Respect in Romance

Whoever is going the fastest must slow down and go as slow as the slowest one, or there can be no healthy progress. Breaking that law is called romantic-rape. The person doing it often calls the victim commitmentphobic. The consequences of breaking the law range from alienation to restraining orders.

The Most Basic Law of Respect in Sex

Whoever is going the fastest must slow down and go as slow as the slowest one, or there can be no healthy progress. Breaking that law is called date-rape. The person doing it often calls the victim frigid. The consequences of breaking the law range from alienation to a prison sentence.

There are exceptions to every law...but very few.

Some other assorted laws....

• The more friendship you give - the more romance you'll get.
• The more romance you give - the more friendship you'll get.
• The more certain you are - the less certain they become.
• The less certain you are - the more certain they become.
• The slower you go - the better it takes.

If romance is giving you more pain than pleasure for longer than a month, either you're doing something wrong or you're doing it with the wrong one. Change something now.

“What To Do? Try To Get Him Back or Forget Him?”

You’ve had your heart broken in the past and promised yourself you would never, ever be in that position again. And since then, you have been very careful not to feel too much or give too much of yourself to any man. For you know, all too well, how much it hurts when the love is not returned.

But somehow this one slipped into your heart when your guard was down. And, once again, you find yourself madly in love.

But how could you have known it would happen again? He was so attentive, showered you with gifts and took you to all the best restaurants. You seemed perfect for one another. You liked the same movies, laughed at the same jokes and even shared similar hobbies. Perhaps that was when you should have listened to the warning sirens going off in your head that said, “if he seems too good to be true…..”

But you hoped and prayed this time things would be different and that he would be the one. Your “knight in shining armor,” the person you could spend the rest of your life with.

Looking back now, you wonder if there were any signs that you missed. A sign that he was unhappy or perhaps that he had met someone else. You have been wracking your brain, unable to sleep or eat, wondering what you did wrong, or didn’t do right. What you could have said or should have said to make him happy. But you will never know, because he won’t talk to you and he won’t return your e-mails.

So, what do you do? You do what you always do. You gather up your girlfriends and go over and over everything you can think of in order to get this man back. You devise all sorts of plans such as showing up at his work, at lunch time, in nothing but a trench coat. After all, you have lost fifteen pounds since he dumped you. Or, you still have the key to his house, so perhaps he’ll find you in his bed waiting for him when he gets home after work.

Then you ask yourself, “Do I really want him back? If he was such a great person, how could he have done what he did to me?” Perhaps even your friends are telling you that you really need to just let it go.

But if you were honest with yourself, wouldn’t you like just one more chance with him? If so, there is hope. You can rekindle your relationship using Bob Grant’s plan for saving relationships, even after a breakup. “How Do I Get Him Back” is a powerful plan for healing a relationship that has just ended, and it shows women exactly what to do that will cause their man to want to get back together. Does this sound too good to be true? Well, I can understand why you might be skeptical, but you don’t have to take my word for it. You can see for yourself by clicking here.

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can Too!

by Bob Grant, L.P.C. author of “The Woman Men Adore”

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this:

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me. They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around. Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying. They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love. Was it me? After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape. So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house? The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner? Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door?

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men. I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them. What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?”

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

I’d like to share with you the secrets that men find irresistible and powerless to resist. The dirty little secret is that having a perfect body isn’t nearly as important as you have been led to believe. You can discover this incredible information by simply clicking here